The Road Toward The Goal
Saturday, August 31st, 2013Sometimes, to reach the goal you feel a euphoria that fades soon after did and now, what?, questions you. What? Therefore another goal, a new challenge, a new illusion. Illusions are free and the goals also. (Francis de Sales) If you’re in a moment of awareness of your current reality, it is important that you start to set some goals. With extreme caution, because this decision to establish them can be as useful as dangerous. Goals, well used, encourage you and stimulated to get them: If you want to do or achieve something, and you have marked you goals, you know (a) what are you going, and you put in it your effort and encouragement.
This allows you to follow a path, not lose yourself in questioning and constant questions, and know where you steer will and energies. In that sense, is very useful and absolutely necessary to have goals: give confidence that brings knowing the meaning of the things that are made, and promotes hope and self-assurance, because you know what is what you want and going for it, and also install one illusion in this desire to reach it. In view of the above, it is positive. It really is so. But a goal without a good plan is just a wish. Serves for very little.
It has no force, and their chances of realization are nil. You have to want a clear goal and devise a plan that will make it possible: a well-designed plan is already fifty percent achieved. The complication begins when that goal is far away or is impossible: then turns against you, because I believe the frustration of the unattainable, and if we add to the confusion that is created when you aren’t very sure of what they want to, the union of the two flows into an inevitable crisis. If you were already badly when you did not know what wanted, it is now worse, get a goal so inaccessible.